How do you deal with losers in your cunt?

moms dying of aggressive cancer (in her 60s)

half brother and I fly out to see her in hospice

several times during our reunion, he talks about having lots of money and a good career e.g...

"yeah my job lets me work as much overtime as I want"

"I make 130k/year"

"I moved back in with my dad when I moved back in state, I'm saving a lot of money"

ask him if he could contribute anything to the funeral (once it happens), even just $1k

he agrees, just has to talk to the gf

mom dies

I pay $10k out of pocket and arrange the entire thing, host it, he attends, etc

text him one month later asking about an update

get this excuse

I just don't know what to do with this fucker anymore. He also owes money from the last time I helped him out too.

Yeah sorry for your loss but ain't reading all of that

let that be a lesson, retard. get people to pay up BEFORE you do the thing. they don't have any reason to pay you back afterwards.

Put a gun in his mouth

How does someone even manage to earn that much and not have significant savings?
Wtf do these retards even spend all that money on?
I manage to have tens of thousands in my bank and i'm a poor retard that's never had a good job or career

@grok is this real

giga poseur loser or full-on scrooge mcduck kike?
ponder upon it.

Unironically tell him the truth (that he is a piece of shit cheap cunt)

What if he doesn't, isn't that one of the obvious explanations? What if he just wanted to brag, or he wanted to make his dying mother feel better

Just cut this retard out of your life

$10,000 for a funeral

If my family lets themselves get scammed into paying for anything more than a cardboard box I'm disinheriting them.

I pay $10k out of pocket and arrange the entire thing, host it, he attends, etc

HUH? for a single funeral?
just rotisserie chicken that bitch and be done with it.

I’m sorry to say your brother sold his soul to big cattle herders outside of Lorado. The iteration of him you see is a distortion of him to the ninth degree.

$10,000 for a funeral

you clearly have money and went for a big thing instead of something small.
your fault

Did you put her in a mausoleum? We didn't even pay that much for my grandmother

How does someone even manage to earn that much and not have significant savings?

I don't know. Especially if he's living with his fucking dad. Goddamn I wish I didn't have to pay rent for a year straight I'd have $36k extra in my savings right now.

I wish it wasn't.

$10k just to bring someone under the ground

I need to remind myself to write in my will, that they throw me on a dumbster or in a pigpen.

Anyways if I was you I would never allow it to get away. Be persistent and get your money back. Even if it kills your relation. People like him hope that people forget his debt. Pure scumbag, leach behavior. This is about principle and teaching him, that he should be responsible with his debt.

why dont you just call him on his shit. do it in private(if you have a modicum of respect for him) then in front of others if necessary

Average cost of a funeral is $8k in the US. I had to pay $2600 alone to get her body moved to our family plot.

I'm not mad that he doesn't want to split half and half with me, that's not the point.

If he had told me that he didn't believe in funerals and just wanted a cheap cremation, he could have paid me $350 as those are commonly $1k-$2k. But instead he coughs up this chicken shit excuse.

He has the thirdie soul.

Anyways if I was you I would never allow it to get away. Be persistent and get your money back. Even if it kills your relation. People like him hope that people forget his debt. Pure scumbag, leach behavior. This is about principle and teaching him, that he should be responsible with his debt.

Yes yes yes you get it. The only reason why I don't do this is because I don't want his daughter to believe he's a piece of shit and develop a low self esteem. Currently hoping this retard can keep regular communications with our mentally disabled sister (he currently does not).

be american

die

my relatives get sent an invoice of 10k + tip

Is he an irresponsible person in general, like bad with money and managing his life? His excuse is pretty pathetic.

He’s proved himself to be an unreliable person so I’d keep him at arms length going forward and keep my expectations at a zero.

GEEEEEEEG
Do they really?

We had to get a concrete vault due to cemetery regulations. The big expense was transporting her body across 3 states

You’re a good person unironically

never get financially entangled with someone who talks openly about money like that
if someone brags about their salary, savings, stocks, etc. they WILL fuck you over for a couple dollars if they get the chance

Average funeral is not much cheaper in Europe if you don't want cremation.

lol this. Fuck this country and it's hatred of it's people.

my relatives get sent an invoice of 10k + tip

My grandfather did the right thing and prepaid the expense decades before his death. I will do the same thing.

giga poseur loser

I believe it's this. He also has one piece tattoos on his arms and unironically think it's ok.

Ngl this hit close to home. My mom died of cancer 2 years ago too, tho neither of my brothers or me have money because I live off welfare while having to pay off debt, my other brother has debt from his retarded Mercedes purchase + got his first child 5 months ago and the other brother is mentally ill and poor.

There are a lot of people on Anon Babble who brag about their salaries - even outside of Anon Babble.

Is he an irresponsible person in general, like bad with money and managing his life? His excuse is pretty pathetic.

Yup, he had a child out of wedlock with a junkie and it took years for him to finally separate himself from her. He now works a trade job and claims to make bank, but can't provide even a modicum of $$$ with plenty of prior notice.

Are you a Turk?

Well I'm afraid that she will find it out herself sooner or later, but I understand what you mean. A buddy of mine kinda has the same situation over 200€ and he offered his debtor to pay his debt in installment payment. Maybe that could be a solution, if he has really money problems. Would take a while, but atleast you get it back,

My TC is $300k

Sorry for your loss. It's actually a fucking miracle I could afford this, I thank God for this code meme career everyday.

I did not ask that.

Nah German. Why do you think so, is it because I have siblings, my sibling has a child or because Germans buy German cars?
Thank you, you too. 10K is not bad for a funeral btw if you got the plot of land, coffin and grave stone included. Even the basic grave stone we want costs 5.2K alone.

he really had to brag about that to someone today, please understand

I thought coding was a meme

Do the stone later and get a temporary grave marker. That helps a lot.

We only had a few days to bury her per custom but we made compromises to prevent the costs from destroying my savings account.

Only Turks buy cars of German luxury brands with their own money. Native Germans usually drive them as Firmenwagen.

It was supposed to be but the gigs keep paying more after every jump. God made it real so I could pay for the funeral. At least that's what I tell myself

10k for a funeral is just nuts

He’s a mess. Sounds very adhd to be honest. He probably genuinely has no money because managing it would require a functioning frontal lobe and good decision making skills.

works a trade job

Classic tradie crash out behaviour. Not uncommon that they earn cash and then spend recklessly. Like athletes and rappers kekk

It adds up pretty fast when you have to ship a body

Do the stone later and get a temporary grave marker. That helps a lot.

We already did that.

We only had a few days to bury her per custom but we made compromises to prevent the costs from destroying my savings account.

What cost cutting measures did you do? Honestly given you’re American I wouldn’t expect 10K to be much for you.
No they don’t, Turks either lease newer cars or buy old ones from 15 years ago with their money. Wouldn’t be surprised if you’re Turkish tho "wallah we rich and buy our cars while almans drive their company Nissan Leaf".

He doesn't want anything to do with you or your family. Move on.