Do you want kids in your country?
Do you want kids in your country?
This would be seen as subhuman behaviour in Greece.
this is ai slop
Oh no, i am sure the his kids dont give a shit about his well-being for no fucking reason at all
being old should be considered your own fault, just die. it's not that hard
I want kids
for no fucking reason at all
there is a reason - they have better, more dopamine-increasing things to do than talking to an old chap.
As I became more and more mature and with the decline of health with my elder parents, I can't imagine just abandoning them in some terrible institute where they would be surrounded by strangers.
My father was always there for me, and said to me numerous times that he would crash and go far and beyond to help me in any way I need. He is always ready to give me advice.
My mother continues to support me. She loves to cook me great meals and never forgets me.
Because of it, I just don't want to abandon them.
Even if that means that I will be left alone, changing their soiled underwear and wash them when they will be no longer able to do it themselves.
I wasn't born in a wealthy family and when I was growing up often cursed my fate for it. But eventually I saw that I have a great family and I am grateful to be born to them.
I love my parents.
Very sad to see online how terrible families in the US tend to be. Maybe it is rare cases and I know about them only because of the internet but maybe it is common, and that is very dreadful otherwise.
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Dont ever reply to me again, jeet
Kek, you still don't realize what caring about an Alzheimer or dementia-ridden person is, you wouldn't stand a week with your mother throwing her literal shit at you because she thinks you came to kill her or something.
It's always like that with everyone, "I love my parents so I will care about them no matter what" until reality comes in, when you cannot go to work and your wife threatens you with divorce because your family doesn't have a normal life as it's 24/7 revolving around your ill parents.
I work from home.
I don't have a wife.
My parents are the closest people to me.
They are the only ones who really care for me and love me. With them being gone, no one will remember and care about me. So It is my duty to support them just as they did me throughout all of my life.
I don’t precisely because I know it will end like this. All this cope about le dying alone is just horny retards who use their dicks more than their heads.
This. My gf's grandma got dementia and her daughter and husband tried to not put her in a clinic for as long as possible but in the end caved in. Personally I would kill myself when I would realize my mind is starting to melt
I work from home.
I don't have a wife.
Ok, if you can, then sure. But most people won't just abandon and destroy their life and everything they achieved in it, just to take care of their old parents for a while until they die anyway. You don't owe anything to your parents, it was their decision to give a birth to you, you didn't ask for it, so it was their fucking duty to raise you and not expect anything in return. If they raised you only to have a cheap slave to serve them when they're old, then it's peak egoism and the mere fact that you justify it with obscure emotions like "love" only confirms the Stockholm syndrome they managed to instill into you.
I would if my parents get dementia.
how does it even matter if you die alone or surrounded with your family, should i really sacrifice like 20 years of my life in my prime to raise a kid just to HOPE that it will stay with me for 5 minutes before I pass away? That's probably the worst benefit-cost ratio investment ever.
And if my agony is longer than that then it's basically better not to be taken care of because it will accelerate your death which is highly expected in such a situation. I remember my uncle dying for cancer and his whole family taking care of him, while de facto making him (and themselves) suffer for months more, even though it could have ended way earlier that would've been better both for the uncle and his family.
You don't owe anything to your parents,
How can you be so soulless?
This. Modern medicine creates zombies. Imagine not only wageslaving but boomerslaving as well. Maybe should have had second thoughts about those cans of beer every week.
Yeah, that’s what I’m saying too. Sorry if I wasn’t clear enough.
ok Paco, maybe you still don't get it as you came from a thirdie religious country but your children born and raised in the US will already share the same opinion like me
Sorry if I wasn’t clear enough.
That's ok but please don't be so polite on this board, this makes me feel uneasy
Fuck you, nigger polack. Now go clean my toilet.
that's German posting I feel comfortable with, thanks
He should just die and stop suffering, maybe convincing the other inmates to do the same
I'm white and don't have that opinion towards my parents.
then enjoy having stockholm syndrome and then slaving for them when they're old, not my problem
How is it stockholm syndrome to care for your own loved ones? You are fucked in the head
actually being put in a shelter
Don't be ungrateful old men, my parents could rot in the streets for all I care
care for your own loved ones
yeah, the victim also thinks his oppressor deserves love, that's the point of this syndrome
yea I want a big family of 10 kids but I didn't get rich so its over
what does beer have to do with this
I have kids in my country. Hardest and best thing I ever did with my mediocre life.
I didn’t think I wanted them until I was 30. I changed my mind and am glad I did. But it’s not for everyone. I have equal contempt for those who hate kids and for those who insist that life is meaningless without them. But I, personally, am glad I had kids.
My parents aren't an oppressor. Maybe that's the case for you, but i don't come from an abusive family
My grandma was in a home for her last year but we visited her every week.
It was fun because all the other old folks were jealous of her getting regular visits. Imagine not helping your grandpa dunk on the other old farts
I have equal contempt for those who hate kids and for those who insist that life is meaningless without them
What if I just don’t want them personally?
inb4 you will
I don’t even want a gf. And no, I’m not gay.
My parents aren't an oppressor
yes, the point of the syndrome is that the victim of objective oppression doesn't see his relation with the oppressor as oppression
but i don't come from an abusive family
neither do i lol
but it still doesn't change the fact that i was conceived without my permission and my parents did it to please their OWN emotional needs, not mine. And then they expected I would take care of them when they're old. This is peak egoism and there's nothing about unselfish love. It's purely quid-pro-quo relation and you must be really blind not to see that. Ofc all animals work like this instinctively but at one point you must notice it.
If no girlfriend then how do you satisfy your sexual urge?
my trusty hand
My only hope is become wealthy enough to send my parents to a luxury retirement home, my dad already fucked up his legs in a car accident, there are no way i could physical care for him and my mom
i want a gf first
My father has a similar disease and while he still retains some of his cognitive capabilities and we could take care of him, he's staying at home.
Don't try to generalize and lecture us about it, I haven't had holidays for 3+ years, I have been shouted "I hate you" several times, I've been treated as a punching bag, I have to clean Nutella like shit...and yet we're taking care of him
You don't owe anything to your parents
Awful take
Unless they were really bad parents, yes you very much do owe them
this
ungrateful piece of shit
why should I love my parents
why should I have kids, it's a bad investment
what an absolutely disgusting outlook on life, you psychopathic hedonistic ultramaterialist meat robot
you're a walking definition of souless
never post anything again or I will find you and puke on you
I hate this guilt trip bullshit
YOU HAVE A PHONE, YOU CAN ALSO CALL
MAYBE MAKE SOME FRIENDS AROUND YOU?
FUCK YOU BITCH
this is why in Sweden we practice "ättestupa" where old people throw themselves of cliffs to not burden their children
yes you very much do owe them
no lol, i didn't ask them to bring me to this wicked world
thirdies will never understand this
not my problem, take care of your parents if you want lmao, i prefer living my life to the fullest if i already had to be born (didn't ask for it)
we had a similar practice in the countryside way until 19th century, it was leaving the old person in the forest during winter so he freezes to death
n-no YOU HAVE TO BE HERE FOR ME EVERYDAY BECAUSE I DID A CUME IN YOUR MOM 40 years ago
I honestly think we've increased human suffering with medicine. It used to be that if you had a single health problem after the age of 50, you quickly died. How long do people with dementia live now, 10 years? It's insane.
It's insane.
yeah, and i really feel sorry for the families of those who decided to take care of them at home and basically turn their own life into hell.
Justifying it with love makes no sense because if your parent could think rationally and he really loved you, he'd ask you to put him in the nursing home. No loving parent would really want his child to carry such a heavy burden for years.
he'd ask you to put him in the nursing home.
Here you pay 3k a month (average wages are 1k-1,5k for entry level jobs) for keeping a mindless flesh husk alive for a decade more
still better than keeping it at home because it can unironically destroy your life, family, relationship, job and everything
Better is to let people no longer human have a dignified death