Our societies are made so that nobody has to rely on family, friends or social ability to survive. We laugh at people who still live with their parents past age 20. Stay at home-moms are considered bad and most often daycare (you can't use that word by the way you have to call it pre-school) from age 1-2 is the norm. If you end up friendless, single, unemployed, rarely meet your family and live alone, that's completely fine and quite common, and you will still get enough money to live a comfortable life until you die. The internet provides you with something to do. Also our societies are extremely politically correct and ruled by peer-pressure and threats of exclusion, which is how insane feminist/multicultural ideas are made to prosper even though nobody really believes in it. This social climate makes us either weird and socially distant, or excessively socially extroverted and thoroughly fake.