What's so wrong with being a neet exactly?

i am a 32 year old neet and i don't understand why neets get so much hate when we don't hurt anyone. i hate leaving the house. i never wanted to go to school. i have never had a job. i spend every hour on my computer. i could not be happier. my parents support my lifestyle. my dad gives me money and my mom cooks and cleans. i once joked about getting a job and they said "you don't have to so why would you, we can afford taking care of you forever"

It's cool if you're first world or have endless savings/inheritance
for some countries or some people NEETing your 20's away is a death sentence
here at least there's jobs that have age limits especially if it's some executive corpo function where they expect you to stick around for long

thing is you're not contributing anything to the life you're carrying
if everyone did what you do there would be no electricity and most of the furniture you use would be impossible to have.
they see you and resent you for it
t. I know, I've neeted a lot

It's impossible to get a job in my country

it is your parents's job to take care of you though. we are not rich or first world but a neet doesn't have many expenses so they can afford keeping me unemployed

i respect people who can work but i never had the personality for it. i don't think we need to contribute anything to strangers in the world. i contribute to my family by existing

your parents responsibility ends around the time you're supposed to get your degrees and get a job aka 22 to 25 at most for most people
past that they're just doing you a favor
i have a cousin that could qualify as a "hikki/neet" but his dad has a good pension and he got some meme trade degree anyways just in-case

you probably have issues and your parents protect you from the world because it wont be nice to your kind. i dont have these issues, not diagnosed atleast. i have to struggle to make a living, and i know a certain amount of my taxes goes to paying for neets living like you. is it not fair that i wish death and hell upon your kind? i want you to work for me, just for one day. there is no disease, no mental illness, no degree of crippled that makes a man totally unable to work. stephen hawkin used tongue controlled ai to speak, whats your excuse?

are your parents proud of you?

Do you keep your stuff clean?

my excuse is i am the type of person who doesn't have the personality for employment. i also get no welfare. i live on my father's money and they have the right to use it to support my lifestyle

guys should i go back to uni and get an engineering degree at 24? i got a useless humanities meme degree and am currently working a wagie warhouse job. alternative i can try to join civil service.
i was a NEET for a few years, being isolated isnt good. if you have some friends to NEET with being a NEET is very fun, but if your just NEETing alone in your hometown with no plans it is GRIM.

why wouldn't they be? just because i don't work doesn't mean i'm a bad person

my excuse is i dont want to, and your blood, sweat and tears contribute towards me living despite it
cope + seethe

i don't move around much so i rarely create messes but my mom cleans for me

parents have sabotaged you since birth, fret not, for you were groomed by your parents to be a dependant NEET loser

i would never go to university twice but you should do what makes you happy

do norwegians really get gibs to be unemployed?

i was brought into this world without my consent and will
i don't owe anything to anyone and I will leech of the system as much as i can

im suicidal. im alive because they look after me. im not 30 yet. sometimes i say if only they were bad to me so i could end my life easily without worrying about them.

You don't suffer in your country

why not?

they were bad to you, they turned you into a pathetic wimp, REBEL

I don't love working but I hope to never go back to my NEET days, all that free time drove me insane. How do you spend all your free time?

whats your job?

is grooming your son to become a wageslave any better? that is not independent

it makes sense to do that but i don't view my neetdom like that, i think it is something my parents gave me with love

why are you suicidal? having a family that takes care of you and not having to work is the best feeling

Is it easy to get a job in turkey? I'm involuntary neet.

i hated school. i can't imagine going back to education. it's so hard. i finished high school with distant education and never considered going to university because there is nothing i want to do more than stay home

i browse Anon Babble, watch anime and tv series, play video games. i never get bored because there is always more to consoom

I'm 33, never had a job and never will.
Got permabux and live alone so I'm not bothering anyone else.
Life is good.

it is hard to find jobs for educated people but there are a lot of slave jobs for uneducated people like being a construction worker. i don't want to do that. what about your country?

your father will die before you, then what? also there is no such as personality for employment, if you where forced to it you would find a way. and im heavy towards forcing you to do it.

hard to fault it if you are genuinely content. Your parents must be unique you being from a thirdie country and them not pressuring you to get a job and become a beta provider for a foid

im melancholic and i see no purpose in my life. im "uh what could have been" person. however im glad i never worked a day in my entire life. while others were stressing over mundane shit and waking up sitting for hours stuck in traffic. i dont regret anything in this regard.

distant education

me 2 im still in distant education. i gotta avoid military service.

working is too stressful. you need to wake up early and show up every day. too many responsibilities give me stress. the other month i had a doctor's appointment at 10:30 and it was brutal to have to wake up at like 8 am just to go there. i can't imagine having to do this even earlier every single day for years. i would kill myself if i had to

pathetic, but just how rich are you parents? do you feel no anxiety over eventually then dying and you being alone?

serioisly, you should embrace military service. do it, it was the best thing in my life, a huge kick in my lazy ass and i found some purpose in it.

samefag i don't want to think about my parents dying before me but if it happens, i'll just live with another family member. i am not expensive to take care of

they are not rich, my dad is retired snd has a slightly higher than average salary. they have their own houses because they were easier to buy decades ago. my parents also inherited property from theirs. i dont want to think about them dying but there are always other family members i can live with

yeah why would i do a hard job like that when i can just neet in the comfort of my parents's house

why would i be happier while slaving away for an employer that hates me? they sre doing what they know is best for me

you will be forced to get up at the same time every day, that in itself is a thing you need. no excuses, when the bell chimes you are up. you think you have some special needs so you must sleep longer, you get pulled out of you bed and beaten for that. you are not special. i know this seems crap to you right now but its a good and healthy lifestyle, its nice to have the army teach it to you.

good goy i mean guy... please be another wheel of system that relies on constant growth but infinite growth on a finite planet.

why would i be happier while slaving away for an employer that hates me?

At least you'd have money of your own and be independent. And have the satisfaction of providing for yourself
Why not give it a try even for just a month? it's not like you have anything to lose

i get no gibs but i hate this government and i think being a neet is one of the best ways to say fuck you to the system

I'm close to thirty. I never liked this type of life. Mental illness kept me and pushed me here.

but it sounds too difficult and what do you get

beaten for that.

thats barbaric. what did you learn in military anyways? did you shot a lot or learn anything useful like survival skills? what even people you do in military i have no idea.

difficult

well they dont ask that, they make you do it anyway

what do i get

i got the best most sex crazy gf a man could ask for and her father gave me the job i have today.

I don't believe NEET's can be happy. Sure there are some eccentrics or autists who enjoy life of leisure. I read posts from old NEET's online, most are extremely bitter, full of regret and depressed.

You are thinking about this the wrong way
Rn you are completely dependent on the good will of your parents. You have no control and no power. If they decided to cut you off, you'd be fucked
So i'd say joining the military might be a shitty experience, but at least you'd be doing something and maybe learning some useful things along the way

it is scary to get out of your comfort zone. i am too used to neetdom

something about contributing to society blah blah
its pure cope, people work to make a living for themselves, not for society lmao. they get mad if they see people who lives comfortably without having to work. because work objectively sucks

How do neets even pay for food, internet, electricity, etc?

workers slave away their entire lives to have what i have, why would i regret making myself comfortable and not suffer

I get €1600/month in bux.

Put out some applications for something easy like retail or go in person to restaurants and ask if they're hiring
I did this as an extremely shy 17 year old teen, so surely you are capable of this

why do you guys think neets can adopt to military life after lets say spending a decade isolated from people? military must be full of idiotic low iq people by nature. you have to be fit and healthy both mentally physically. i dont think thats realistic suggestion.

i will never have these things so there is no point. i don't want a job or a gf because they are too much stress

Honestly if my family was rich i wouldn't work. but if you don't come from a rich family, you are more than likely only fucking yourself over

There is a big difference between shy 17 year old. And 30 year old who dropped out over decade ago. I went to interview recently right away they were questioning some gap. OP would have to become liar and sociopath to get in.

This. It's harder to get into the military here than it is to get a normal job.

my most valuable skills that i still carry today and im shocked that normies and particulary women dont know is these:

everything you carry has its designated pocket, its never somewhere else your phone is in That pocket, your keys in This, and nowhere else.

whenever you leave home you do a KTS (klar til strid, ready to combat) and you check that your items is in their designated areas so you dont have to look for them when needed.

and a third skill you learn is to hate. you absolutely hate marching in winter, you hate pitching tent in snow and rain, you hate your mates, you hate everything, but you do it anyway. in pure hatered.

why would they ever cut me off? i would have to join a terrorist organization and kill hundreds of babies for them to even consider that. disowning your child over dumb shit is a white people thing

I think it's an illness, but for some reason Germans treat such people worse than giga nazis who would burn children alive.

I never had problems with neets. I think it's the fault of a subhuman society.

my dad buys those and i don't have many expenses

Good luck bro. I just found out you are 10 yrs older than me hahah. If you have the opportunity to neet forever take it. For me I am just bored and the internet just tires me out already.

how many months or year did you spend in military?

I went to interview recently right away they were questioning some gap

If it's not a super high level job, just make up some random jobs inbetween. Say you worked at walmart (or whatever is the finnish equivalent of Walmart)
Often these places just want warm bodies to fill. high turnover means they're constantly hiring

kan du kanskje peke skytevåpen mot meg mens du gjør narr av meg eller noe sånt haha..

>everything you carry has its designated pocket, its never somewhere else your phone is in That pocket, your keys in This, and nowhere else.

>whenever you leave home you do a KTS (klar til strid, ready to combat) and you check that your items is in their designated areas

Not much of a valuable skill. This is just common sense no?

im not op. i was dreaming about becoming a heavy equipment operator atleast you can work relatively alone in construction sites but i got fucked in the eye. i dont even consider obtaining driver licence now.

I'm suicidal, hiki, truecel, shortcel etc. I just keep going until I hang myself. I'm contacting unis to aquire masters degree. This way is better than being a neet imo

brutal

They probably won't, but at the end of the day you are still at the mercy of another person. You are not living your own life.
if you're fine with being dependent then ok, but most adults crave a degree of independence

they don't care about neet gaps for slave jobs, it's not like i will ever become a professor or anything

im not just NEET im mentally ill and cant be around people, im super inhibited socially and fearful, yet i desperately want company and community. its a special type of hell.

this is suicide

I stutter when I talk to people in my age gap.It's funny that I don't when I talk with elders. If you are not this bad, consider to get a job.

if i ever had to get a job i would also go for something like that where you don't have to work with other people and just operate a machine on your own

education is also too much responsibility, when you work you at least get payment for your effort while as a student you get nothing

They do here. If you start this life they don't want you back.

a year. drove hagglunds, scanias, mb's, combat boat 90, some swedish prototype boat called combat boat 2000, the buttold landing crafts of the norwegian army, i was enemy in 2 nato excersices, it was a hell of a year. would do it again.

army

my parents support my lifestyle

lucky you

I'm suicidal, hiki, truecel, shortcel etc. I just keep going until I hang myself. I'm contacting unis to aquire masters degree. This way is better than being a neet imo

Mogs me at having education. I can't go back to school anymore. It is too late for me. I wish I could get a machine job like OP or join the military to gain free skills like firsties.

I feel behind even from other neets. I have nothing to prove.

At least I don't have to socialize with people at my age and constantly rethink how subhuman I am.

Your country is too shithole to talk about being a neet and it's not your fault. I suggest you to move out of your country and get a factory job here or Japan.

Just go back if you are in your early 20s. Going to regret it later and it will be even harder.

I'm the same way despite being a wagie. Wage-dom hasn't changed anything for me. All of my interactions with coworkers are superficial and transactional

not necessarily. My parents are relatively wealthy but they made crystal clear for me they ain't paying for any NEET lifestyle

Anyways I wish my dad were a wealthy man. He's too old right now and I can't keep blaming him for my existence anymore. So, I need to do something despite being a repulsive truecel. I wish you had the motivation bro.

i hate socialization too, i don't want to talk to anyone besides my family and anons

do you guys daydream a lot?

i daydream about founding a commune in spain where people can live with dignity and love

Yeah I daydream of being a chad and normal

Sometimes, they get so intense I forget my what I'm doing. Usually about better or different life.

isnt spain too hot for you?

me too

i am a simple man, i dream about what i am going to eat and what anime i am going to watch, small things like that give me purpose

i just doomscroll youtube/x/Anon Babble all the day and incel walk for exercise.