I'm white and when I was 14 I had a skin infection on my thigh and waist/stomach area and my mother took me to this indian doctor. While my mother was making the appointment, the doctor asked my mother if her 12-year-old daughter could stay in the room during my examination and my mother gave consent and they let the doctor's daughter be in the room while I was being examined completely naked. Is this a bad reason to be racist or not?
Is this a bad reason to be racist?
Don’t hold it against them, he was just helping her adjust to the standards of adult indian men
Did he touch her
The doctor was female and how is that helping her adjust to indian men? I'm white.
She was trying to save you from inceldom by showing her daughter, now look where you are
Her daughter wasn't naked, I was.
The correct approach was to also ask her to be naked, it was a test s mh my head
I actually did ask that and the doctor and my mother got angry.
Damnn maybe it is a good reason after all
probably the daughter manifested some desire to follow her mothers footsteps? still not terribly professional but why are anglos so scared of nudity?
What do you mean good reason?
I asked on the republic of ireland's legal advice reddit page and they told me this was legal due to my mother consenting.
You said why am I scared of nudity but you do realise this would have been a crime if the genders were reversed right?
op has been posting this for years
Have you never heard of shadowing? Especially for kids of doctors that want to follow in their parents footsteps a lot of first experiences come from bring your kid to work day
It wouldn't have been a crime if your mom gave consent either way if you were a minor. You can assent in this country, but idk the rules in Cote d'Ivoire and other African countries
Yes, I have heard of shadowing, but why is a 12-year-old girl allowed to see a 14 year old boy completely naked during shadowing experience?
It wouldn't have been a crime if your mom gave consent either way if you were a minor. You can assent in this country, but idk the rules in Cote d'Ivoire and other African countries
I live in the republic of ireland, and "It wouldn't have been a crime if your mom gave consent either way if you were a minor." is only true in my situation due to me being a boy and a girl seeing me naked. If I had been a 14-year-old girl and my parent gave permission for a doctor's 12-year-old son, the irish police and child protective services would disregard parental consent and press charges against the doctor and parent. The doctor would lose their job. Do you honestly believe it would be legal to do this to a female child?
I am in my early 20s and I had to see plenty of naked boys, girls, and babies for my peds clerkship physical exams. I assure you there is no sexual tension seeing your micropenis in the exam room, just maybe clinical fascination.
Ireland
That's why I was covering my bases with the other African countries. Are you sure that a male observing a female physical exam is illegal? How do medical students there ever learn anything for women? Here, it's all based on parental consent for minors of either sex - but minors can choose to assent.
In the republic of ireland the legal age to consent to medical related things is 16. The users on the reddit page for legal advice in the republic of ireland told me it is legal due to my parent consenting.
I don't know if a boy observing a girl during a medical examination is illegal, I'm just assuming it is because I find the idea of the irish police and child protective services allowing a parent to give a doctor's 12 year old son permission to look at a 14 year old girl not realistic. Society has always protected female modesty.
I'm just assuming it
Okay so you're just stupid. Reddit already gave you the right answer, go back and stay back
Reddit answered my question of whether a boy being naked in front of girl without his permission was legal and they said it was.
Do you not think the idea of a parent being allowed to consent to a doctor's 12 year old son seeing the parent's 14 year old daughter completely naked and this being legal is absurd? To me it doesn't sound realistic.
Do you not think it is a reasonable assumption?
It’s your mothers fault. You should have pressured her and told her that you don’t want to be naked in front of her.
I know it is her fault but why was the doctor allowed to ask my mother for permission for her daughter to see me naked?
Wait fuck this is a sexual thing? Ew so this guy's just a pedophile, never mind confirmed as white and not Irish.
I don't think it's a reasonable assumption because non-pedos are not going to get sexually attracted to children in a clinical context. And teenagers should know better in that tightly controlled clinical context - which that Indian doctor's daughter clearly did, meanwhile you have been posting this pedoshit reminiscing for a year
The doctor's daughter wasn't even a teenager, she was 12 and she saw my penis and buttocks so it was not appropriate.
And how old are you now?
Fair enough, but you should realise that doctors see naked people everyday. Since her daughter was training to be doctor, it would help her to see such examinations, provided the patient consented. However, I agree that you shouldn’t have been forced into it and your mom should have listened to you not wanting her there.
No, I'm saying it is a reasonable assumption to assume that child protective services and the police would not be okay with a doctor's 12 year old son seeing an unconsenting 14-year-old girl naked even with the girl's parent's consent
That’s bizarre honestly. Why did the doctor want her there? I thought she was the 14 year old, my bad.
Humans are a sexually dimorphic species anon.
What does that have to do with anything? I'm saying that if the genders were reversed and I was a 14 year old girl who's parent gave a doctor's 12 year old son to see me naked and I did not consent, the police and child protective services would have stepped in.
At 14 I'd have told everyone to fuck off, why didn't you?
The doctor shouldn't have done that, your dumbass mother shouldn't have consented and you shouldn't have gotten naked.
Part of his exhibitionist fetish is talking about how wrong it was to be naked to other people
Nigga's probably jacking off right now
They wouldn't have even been allowed to do this to begin with if the genders had been reversed anon
You’re male anon. You don’t get to walk shirtless on the beach if you are a girl.
That's different though, male chests are not private parents. I had to be completely naked in front of the girl.
There are different rules for males and females anon. It’s reality. Alright, Your mother was at fault for forcing you, and so was the doctor for allowing it to happen when you didn’t want it to. Either get over it, or confront your mother.
That's retarded. Why are you indians like this? I bet a white doctor would not have made this request
How do you think doctors become doctors anon?
more than 20 threads right now with this stupid rotten meme as OP,just saying
They could have had the doctor's daughter watch someone else who wasn't going to be naked instead of me.
A 12 year old girl wouldn't be training to be a doctor and even if she was, she had no reason to see a 14 year old boy completely naked.
Do you think medical school is just staring at the screen all day and your doctor pops out fully made?
I will tell you I knew absolutely jack shit when I was thrown into my first clinical rotation DESPITE a year of doing light clinic work during my lectures
Like I was just told "yeah here are your two ICU patients, present on them and give a clearcut assessment and plan and don't let them die or be hurt or you fail"
Just get over it dude. There’s realistically nothing you can do about it, so why not let it go and do something worthwhile instead of obsessing over it constantly.
If I had been a 14 year old girl and a doctor asked if her 12 year old son could stay in the room and watch while I was naked, the irish police and child protective services would have stepped in and the doctor would have lost her license and would face serious legal consequences.
I bet this wasn't the first time that doctor did this to a male child.
Alright man.
Do you not agree that this would not have been allowed legally if I had been a girl with a boy watching?
You should ask the legaladvice subreddit for your country that. At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter at all, what has happened has happened, and obsessing over it isn’t going to help you at all.
I said that this wouldn't have been allowed if I had been a 14 year old girl with a 12 year old boy watching and the users got aggressive towards me and refused to answer whether it would have been allowed and legal or not
Does it matter? No. Move on.
Just use a different account and ask for legal advice for the scenario where the genders are reversed. Don’t bring up the original post.
Just curious though, why are you guys like this? I posted this on Anon Babble before and someone told me indians like forcing male nudity.